Show preset wish names in the current UI language

Preset wishes were created with `name: t(preset.labelKey)`, so the
translated string was persisted as the wish's name. A wish created while
the UI was Swedish stayed "Jul" in English forever -- the Swedish text
was the data, so no display-layer change could fix it.

Wish names are user-editable free text, so `name` cannot simply be
translated at render time. Migration 007 adds a nullable
`leave_wish.name_message_key` recording where a name came from: preset
wishes store the i18n key alongside the translated literal, and the UI
renders the key when present.

The key is cleared server-side the moment `name` actually changes,
compared against the stored value rather than trusting the caller, so no
client can forget to clear it and silently revert a user's own name to a
preset label.

An unknown key (a stale row, a renamed key) falls back to the stored
literal via an isTranslationKey guard, so a bad key can never crash the
page or leak a raw key to the user. Rows predating this column keep
displaying their stored name.

_FULL_SCHEMA in db/connection.py is updated in step with the migration.

Co-Authored-By: Claude Opus 5 <noreply@anthropic.com>
Claude-Session: https://claude.ai/code/session_01RXMhc9nT6sNz1SL4j8dznL

backend/app/db/connection.py

@@ -81,6 +81,7 @@ CREATE TABLE IF NOT EXISTS leave_wish (
     workspace_id TEXT NOT NULL,
     child_id TEXT,
     name TEXT NOT NULL,
+    name_message_key TEXT,
     window_start_month INTEGER NOT NULL DEFAULT 1
         CHECK (window_start_month >= 1 AND window_start_month <= 12),
     window_start_day INTEGER NOT NULL DEFAULT 1